Monday, March 5, 2018

Seeking Validation



Throughout Pride and Prejudice, Austen makes clear that Elizabeth Bennet is often too quick to judge. Once she forms an impression, she seeks to interpret everything around her accordingly so as to validate her first impression. Her readings of others are often quite accurate, but this is not so with George Wickham. Her positive views of Wickham – and ensuing willingness to believe him wholeheartedly – then stem less from a genuine trust in his character and more from her desire to further validate her negative views of Darcy.
Upon meeting, Elizabeth and Wickham almost immediately strike up a conversation regarding their ill thoughts of Darcy. Wickham is one of the few people in the novel who fully agrees with Elizabeth’s negative view on Darcy. She observes Bingley’s friendship with Darcy, Jane’s reluctance to judge him too quickly, and even her mother and younger sisters’ appreciation of his money. Wickham is the first to see no positive qualities in Darcy, and Elizabeth latches on to this, ensuring her trust in Wickham and thereby validating her opinion of Darcy.
Consequently, Elizabeth refuses to accept ill-perceptions of Wickham until receiving Darcy’s letter. When Jane relays to her that Bingley’s perception of the conflict between Darcy and Wickham, Elizabeth is quick to refute her. She tells Jane, “I have not a doubt of Mr. Bingley’s sincerity… but you must excuse my not being convinced by his assurances only. Mr. Bingley’s defense of his friend was a very able one I dare say, but since he is unacquainted with several parts of the story, and has learnt the rest from that friend himself, I shall venture to think of both gentlemen as I did before” (94). Elizabeth is quick to discredit Bingley’s account, even though she has come to value his character. Furthermore, when she and Mrs. Gardiner discuss Wickham’s relationship with Miss King, Elizabeth again is quick to contest any of her aunt’s criticisms against Wickham. When Mrs. Gardiner suggests that Wickham only pursued Miss King for her money, Elizabeth is quick to defend him (even though this goes against previous standards she had held Bingley to regarding her sister). She tells her aunt, “A man in distressed circumstances has not time for all those elegant decorums which other people may observe. If she does not object to it, why should we?” (151). Tarnishing Wickham’s supposedly perfect character would contradict her long-standing poor impression of Darcy, so Elizabeth latches onto the “virtue” of Wickham rather than accept outside advice from a respected source such as Bingley or Mrs. Gardiner.
Elizabeth’s trust in Wickham then extends from her need to be correct in her judgments – particularly regarding Mr. Darcy. She cannot accept otherwise of Wickham without being wrong about Darcy as well, so she selectively chooses to ignore the bad in Wickham until she can no longer avoid it. Her realization upon Darcy’s letter then is a crush to her pride, as she must accept her judgments about both men were incorrect.

1 comment:

  1. You make an interesting point by noting that Elizabeth’s views of Wickham depend heavily on her adverse opinion of Darcy. Elizabeth’s fondness for Wickham grows as she discovers his distain for Darcy matches her own. At first, their dislike of Darcy unites them. The novel explains, “[Elizabeth] was very willing to hear [Mr. Wickham], though what she chiefly wished to hear she could not hope to be told, the history of his acquaintance with Mr. Darcy” (66). Elizabeth’s anger fuels her attempts to uncover the root of Darcy’s pride and ungentlemanly behavior because she cannot fathom Darcy as anything but a selfish aristocrat. Elizabeth readily accepts Wickham’s response as fact because she hopes to confirm her previously formed notions of Darcy’s defects rather than waiting to understand the whole story. While Elizabeth assembles such strong negative opinions of Darcy early in their relationship, she retracts her ill-mannered judgments in favor of the truth. She refutes her previous beliefs about Darcy after hearing his side of the story. When Elizabeth reads Darcy’s letter after rejecting his proposal, the novel notes, “But every line proved more clearly that the affair. . .was capable of a turn which must make [Mr. Darcy] entirely blameless throughout the whole (176). As you point out, Elizabeth buries her own pride and misbeliefs in order to see Darcy in a new light. Now, Elizabeth views him as a kind friend and noble brother rather than a prideful and insolent man.

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